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I’ve been thinking recently about self-trust, se

I’ve been thinking recently about self-trust, self-betrayal, and early relational trauma where many of us learned to EXCEL in self-betrayal in order to survive. ⁣
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I betray myself constantly. And it’s only been this year, during the Great Revealer that has been 2020, that I’ve understood that this is true, that I am aware of and awake to it, and that I no longer want it humming in the background of my life, unconsciously running the show. ⁣
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The process of learning to trust myself has been both lightning and molasses. Lightning because the deep sense of knowing has always existed and my inner knowing is fast, bright, and powerful. Molasses because the training and patterning to think, do, and be otherwise is thick, sticky, and alluringly sweet. ⁣
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Self-trust is a conscious act of defiance. And defiance comes with a price. I don’t know why more people don’t talk about this. Comfort, a perceived sense of safety, and everything that feels familiar is not so politely asked to leave when self-trust takes center stage over self-betrayal. ⁣
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It’s brutal. It’s not love and light. It’s survival instincts shrieking and clawing to protect you. Because that’s what self-betrayal thinks it’s doing. Protecting you. And you allow it because you very literally needed it to survive in the earliest days of your life. And you think you still do. ⁣
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How could you not? It’s everything you know. The thick, sticky molasses that’s incubated you from “harm” has in fact been the monster holding your head under, slowly drowning you the whole time. And you don’t even know it, because at least it tastes sweet. ⁣
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LADYYYY CHRISTIAN ENTREPRENEURS. My child and I (s

LADYYYY CHRISTIAN ENTREPRENEURS. My child and I (swipe!) formally informally invite you into what you have DEFINITELY been waiting for:⁣
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🤩 A KINGDOM biz mastermind 🎉🎉🎉 filled with the BADDEST of broads who know a thing or 200 about building our businesses with Holy Wild Card Spirit. ⁣
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🤩 All biz levels welcomed. We’ve got gals pivoting and starting anew and a WHOLE BUNCH on our way to multi 6+ figs! ⁣
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🤩 The only requirements are that you:⁣
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✅ 1. Love Jesus (duh)⁣
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✅ 2. Are deeply committed to your own personal work and growth in ALL areas of your life⁣
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✅ 3. Are ready to SLAY and next level your biz and assignment⁣
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✅ 4. Believe the Creator of Heaven and earth (and the universe 😘) WANTS TO and is READY TO blow back your hair with increase - in vision, dollars, depth of relationship, and RADICAL faith that moves mountains with a hair flip and side eye ⁣
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✅ 5. Show UP! For yourself and for your sisters. For the people assigned to your life. For your MFing LEGACY. ⁣
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You and I BOTH know the “woo” in the online spiritual biz communities does NOT speak to your spirit and leaves you LONGING. ⁣
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The BORN ICONIC Mastercrew is HILARIOUSLY different. I believe we serve and love a HILARIOUS God who’s got RIDICULOUS good for us. ⁣
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If we’d JUST FRIGGIN GO ALL IN FOR ONCE, we’ll catch it in SPADES. This is our opportunity to go all in with Him. To do it with other women who GET us on a spirit-level and who are AUDACIOUS enough to actually BELIEVE that N-O-T-H-I-N-G is impossible with God. ⁣
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Get your holy hiney inside this group, girl. We close the doors for 6 MONTHS this coming Monday 8/10, so you’ve only got a few more days to get your application in. ⁣
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Let’s GO, daughter of the Most High! The desires of your heart that HE put there are chomping at the BIT to see it ALL come to pass. We’re here to raise your faith and joyful expectation WITH you. Ask me for your app now! 👑🔥🎉

📣 A NOTE TO MY BADASS CHRISTIAN BROADS IN BIZ 📣⁣
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“For nothing is impossible with God.”⁣
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Yesterday when the fam was having a lovely (masked and socially distanced) day at Manhattan Beach, I went back to the car before Keil & Sai. It got cold and I got over it. We like to park on a particular street nestled in a particular neighborhood that’s basically just steps from the water. And I got curious - how much do these waterfront places cost, anyway? ⁣
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Out came Zillow. There are 10 listings up right now that range from apartments to condos to houses and the asking prices are between $2.25M to $18.5M. For the record, my modern-ass taste didn’t even LIKE the $18.5er 😂, but WOW, this $14.8 caught my EYE. ⁣
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I found myself wondering what the folks who live here do for a living, what life would be like to call a place like this HOME, who our neighbors would be, and obviously, how we’d decorate. ⁣
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For the record, I’m in LOVE with our place in Long Beach. The apartment itself, the apartment complex and our staff, our amenities, our location, ALL of it. And for someone who spent the first 9 years of her adult life as a missionary (aka very decidedly NOT making bank 😂), the fact that I live in a place like we do (and pay the rent we do!) 7 years later feels AMAZING. ⁣
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When we were driving home, I started thinking about how my sweet little Honda Fit is 11 years old now. And how I clearly remember buying her when I still lived in Bakersfield and was still a missionary in the porn industry. And how 11 years ago feels like a LIFETIME ago. How different I was then. How different a place in life I was. ⁣
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It made me start thinking about what 10 or 11 years from NOW would be like. Even 5 years from now. How right now in this moment will also feel like a LIFETIME ago - from who I currently am and where we’re at in life. How things I could never even IMAGINE were possible for me WILL be my REALITY. ⁣
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📣 BADASS CHRISTIAN BROADS 📣 ⁣ You know wha

📣 BADASS CHRISTIAN BROADS 📣
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You know what actually matters and moves the needle in business for badass Kingdom broads? Being led by the Spirit of the Living God. ⁣
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Acting on what you hear even if it doesn’t make ANY sense or wasn’t even REMOTELY on your radar. Because obvi, you are BUSY and got PLANS.⁣
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That’s me right now being obedient (and now HELLA excited) to run this 6 month mastermind for Christian biz women. ⁣
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Where did THAT come from, Papa? I mean, sure I’ve been wanting something like this for myself for MONTHS... but I’M running it now? Cool cool cool. Got it got it got it. ⁣
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And yet the vision HE has for this container gets clearer EVERY SINGLE DAY. It’s like I’m just along for the ride. 😂🎢🎡🎠⁣
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There’s a structure now that includes monthly trainings on the BORN ICONIC Method (that ties directly to our identity & purpose), weekly reflective questions, a monthly Zoom prophetic prayer sesh (that I can DEF see us doing more than 1x a month!), a guest teacher/speaker/PREACHA once a month, and DAILY biz masterminding in our private Facebook group + private Voxer chat with the EXPRESS purpose of HEARING Him for each other, high heel STRUTTING in our divine & designed purposes, and yes - making BANK and doing GOOD with these precious bomb ass lives He’s given us. 😎🔥⁣
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I was talking with a girlfriend last night who just joined and we were BOTH sharing how God is ALREADY doing the unexpected in our lives after saying yes to this!! So wild, dude. ⁣
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If this sounds like something you WANT IN on, get at me for an application. If you’re newer to biz or already making multi 6 and 7 figs, this is for YOU. If you have dreams you’re just starting to understand and not 100 yet on what to do with them, this is for YOU. If you’re looking for sisters to run with, rocket launch your faith with, and watch ridiculous legacy-making miracles happen with, this is for YOU. ⁣
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Expect the unexpected and expect it to be HILARIOUSLY GOOD. I’ve got a spot here with your name on it!! Ask Him, get the wink & smile in your spirit, and ask me for the app! We start Aug 3! Price increases with the next round in Feb, so get in now! Let’s GO, Jesus!! 😎🔥

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